Here are the Wilden / Wilding people from the 1851 indexes for Cosford and Raydon only. I have sorted them by census and age, which gives some idea of those around at the time. It does not include females who have married, but does include the maiden names of spouses in many instances. The place is where they are born.

George Wilding   42 Bildeston 131
Eliza Wilding Grimwood 39 Hitcham 131
Elizabeth Wilding   12 Hitcham 131
Robert Wilden   7 Bildeston 131
John Wilding   7 Bildeston 131
Hannah Wilding   2 Bildeston 131
John Wilding   48 Kettlebaston 145
Sarah Wilding Peartree 48 Monks Eleigh 145
Henry Wilding   27 Kettlebaston 145
Charlotte Wilding Death 25 Kettlebaston 145
Matilda Wilding   20 Kettlebaston 145
Mahala Wilding   17 Kettlebaston 145
Emely Wilding   15 Kettlebaston 145
Charles Wilding   10 Kettlebaston 145
John Wilding   6 Kettlebaston 145
Elizabeth Wilding   3 Kettlebaston 145
James Wilding   1 Kettlebaston 145
William Wilding   2 m Kettlebaston 146
Jane Wilding Game 87 Often 146
Robert Wilding   21 Hitcham 146
Caroline Wilding Death 20 Kettlebaston 146
Wm Wilson Wilding   5 m Kettlebaston 147
Zachariah Wilding   25 Kettlebaston 147
Eliz Wilding   23 Bildeston 147
Mary Ann Wilding   3 m Kettlebaston 148
Thomas Wilding   53 Kettlebaston 148
Susan Wilding   37 Kettlebaston 148
Thos Wilding   36 Kettlebaston 148
Harriet Wilding Death 23 Kettlebaston 148
Alfred Wilding   22 Kettlebaston 148
Mary Ann Wilding Manning 20 Kettlebaston 148
Sarah Wilding   17 Kettlebaston 148
Thomas Wilding   11 Kettlebaston 148
Eliz Wilding   3 Kettlebaston 148
Hannah Wilding   1 Kettlebaston 148
Susan Wilding   24 Lavenham 196
George Wilding   1 Lavenham 196
Robert Wilding   27 Lavenham 211
Susanna Wilding   23 Felsham 211
Thomas Wilding   2 Felsham 211
Emily Wilding   1 Pelsham 211
Alice Wilding   59 Lavenham 224
George Wilding   52 Lavenham 224
Sarah Wilding   19 Lavenham 224
Elizabeth Wilding   17 Lavenham 224
Edward Wilding   78 Lavenham 233
John Wilding   67 Lavenham 234
Charles Wilding   44 Acton 234
Mary Wilding Steed 44 Gt Waldingfield 234
Zekiah (m) Wilding   15 Acton 234
William Wilden   63 Harkstead 308
Abraham Wilden   24 Harkstead 308
Mary Wilden   20 Arvarton 308
Rachel Wilden   1 Harkstead 308
Thomas Wilding   37 Kettlebaston 309
William Wilding   33 Kettlebaston 309
Mary Wilding   31 Lavenham 309
Elizabeth Wilding   11 Naughton 309
Mariann Wilding   9 Naughton 309
William Wilding   3 Naughton 309
Ann Wilding   48 Harkstead 328
Benjamin Wilding   27 Shotley 328
Eliza Wilding   25 Ipswich 328
Racheal Wilding   25 Shotley 328
Leonard Wilding   11 Shotley 328
Anne Wilding   1 Shotley 328
William Wilden   34 Harkstead 329
James Wilding   40 Creting 373
Mary Wilding